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The Coney Home Place

Leon Josephus Coney and Ida Augusta Hawkins were married in Arkansas. That first year they had a son, Samuel V., who was born on August 9, 1891, and died in February 1892 of pneumonia.

"Seph," as all of the family called him, contacted his brother Cal, who lived in High, near Paris,Texas, and decided to move away from Arkansas. Uncle Cal was farming and he and Seph shared the farm. One of them had a mule and the other one had a horse, so together they had a team.

From there they moved to Muddig, where they lived in an old barn where Mac and Lovell Daniel's house now stands. Of course, there was no electricity, no radio, and no telephone.

Then Grandpa Leon purchased the Scott place. They moved to the small, three-room, wood-frame house where my daddy, Lowell Coney, was born on April 30, 1901. Even though the five children before him and the three that came after him had multiple names, Dad's was just one name. (In checking through the genealogy records, I found the name "Lowell" a couple of generations back as the maiden name of one of the Coneys' wives and of two other Coney sons later, and consider this to be the source of Dad's name.) That house had a fireplace in one room which would be used to heat the place in the winter, one bedroom, and a kitchen room on the back of the house. Not much space in which to move a family of two adults and four children, with another one on the way. (Dad's sister Mary Lou said that she did not know if Grandpa purchased the large "home place" at that time or not.)

Uncle Henry needed some help in Mississippi, and Grandpa was lonesome for his family. Besides, he was very fond of Uncle Henry, so he moved his family back. Mattie May was born there--their only child to be born in Mississippi.

Grandpa made arrangements with a tenant farmer to take care of the farm. Part of the proceeds from the crops was to go to Mr. Stewart as rent. A year or so later, Mr. Stewart wrote a letter that caused them to move back to Texas. The letter advised Grandpa that Stewart was not receiving all of the rent that he was due from the farm. He stated that the tenant farmer was using the proceeds from the farm to finance his other business. Grandpa came back to check on it and found out it was true. So the tenant farmer left and Grandpa moved his family back.

They lived across the creek from the home place that year, in the house where Dad was born, and moved to it the next. They went to church at Muddig, just across the fence and about 100 yards from Hugh Carver's place. Then they started going to a school on the Stewart place, called Barnett. That schoolhouse was sold to the Hevrons who moved it and made a barn out of it. Then the Coney kids started going to Yowell. (Mary Lou said that they had a well at the barn and a well at the house. Buster put some goldfish in the well at the barn. On a sunny day you could see the goldfish swimming in it, and they got to be huge.)

The year they moved back from Mississippi and moved into the home place, Granny rented a room to the teacher. Dad (Lowell) said she rented a room to the teacher for three years. Ola and Ruth stayed in the hall, the teacher stayed in the piano room, Granny and Grandad stayed in the fireplace room, Edgar and Buster stayed in the dining room, and Lowell and Dave stayed in the "boys' room." I don't ever remember seeing the "boys' room." It was a room that was built behind the kitchen, and after all the kids were gone they tore it down. Mary Lou said that it disappeared when she was a child. The home place had a big front porch that circled around the front room. It also had a side porch behind the hall and along the side of the dining room and kitchen. The living room had a big fireplace, and on the mantle above it was a grandfather clock. Granny kept it wound so they would know the time of day.

Roy Leon (Buster) was born there, and also Mary Lou. This brought the number of their living children to eight. With so many children to care for, everything had to be recycled. Clothing was handed down from the older children to the younger children. In one of the photographs that I have of the family, Dave and Dad are in the front, and although they are dressed up they are barefoot. I asked Dad why. He said that the only ones who got new shoes were Edgar and Ola. After Edgar wore his shoes for a year--for everything from going to school to working in the field--they were pretty well worn out, and were "set" to Edgar's feet. They were uncomfortable to Dave, even though he wore them some. Then after Dave, Dad got them--and they were REALLY worn out, tough and uncomfortable. So he and Dave decided that they would rather go barefoot in the summertime than try to wear those shoes. He said that after a while of working in the field barefoot your feet got so tough that you could kick rocks and not even feel it--then he just laughed.

I painted a picture of the old home place a few years ago while Dad was living with me. He asked me to have copies made and send one to each of the grandchildren as a gift from him. He got many phone calls and letters of thanks. Ours hangs in our hallway, a memory from long ago.

Lowell McCormack
Gainesville, Texas
Published: November 14, 2005

Categories
  RURAL TEXAS
  TEXAS FAMILIES

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 Summertime on the Farm
 The Best Christmas Ever
 Our Treasured Quilt
 Our Family Fishing Trips
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 When God Opens a Door
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 From Texas to Pennsylvania and Back Again
 Granny and Her Girls
 Fireflies and Ice Cream
 My Mother's Methods
 Ask and You Shall Receive
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